We each face situations like this where there is what we need to do and what we want to do. To achieve what we want we need to do what we need whether it is palatable for us or not.
Just like Sunny the cat we need to take our bath whether we like it or not. We have to ask for help or we have to put the time and effort into getting better at the things we do.
Whether we like it or not we have to bath the cat